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Our birth is but a sleep and a forgetting
The Soul that rises with us, our life’s Star,
Hath had elsewhere its setting
And cometh from afar:
Not in entire forgetfulness,
And not in utter nakedness,
But trailing clouds of glory do we come
From God, who is our home:
Heaven lies about us in our infancy!

--Wordsworth’s Ode: Imitations of Immortality from Recollections of Early Childhood

 

There are many rooms in the Father’s House
just as there are many grades in school.
The period of time we spend on earth is,
but one grade of life.
It is, but a beginning.

--Robert A. Russell

 

Clint returned to his Home and we will join him one day. Until that time, we know he rests in the palm of God's hands.


We hurt so much because we loved so much....  

"When you are joyous, look deep into your heart and you shall find it is only that which has given you sorrow that is giving you joy. When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight."

-Kahlil Gibran


Quote on Love  
"Love is how you stay alive, even after you are gone." -Morrie Schwartz
Clint's music  
One day I came across some of Clint's music on our old computer. I found this surprising because I thought most of our music files had be removed in order to help the performance of the computer. I found the titles of the music to be very touching and perhaps even a message.

"I Miss My Friend" - Darryl Worley
"Sympathy" - Goo Goo Dolls
"Sweet Child O Mine" - Guns N Roses
"Cats In The Cradle" - Harry Chapin
"Baby I Love U" - Jennifer Lopez
"Take My Breath Away" - Jessica Simpson
"When The Sun Goes Down" - Kenny Chesney
"I'm Your Angel" - R. Kelly
"Bless The Broken Road" - Rascal Flatts
"Sweet Home Alabama" - Lynyrd Skynyrd

 I will take my special messages and connections any way I can get them.
Mother's thoughts.....  

 “She clings to the hand of God to keep from going wild, while in His presence comes to know His other hand holds her child”

quote from an Angel Mom


THE ROAD TO ETERNITY  
Life is but a stopping place,
A pause in what’s to be,
A resting place along the road
To sweet eternity.
We all have different journeys,
Different paths along the way,
We all were meant to learn some things,
But never meant to stay...
Our destination is a place
Far greater than we know.
For some, the journey’s quicker,
For some, the journey’s slow.
And when the journey finally ends,
We’ll claim a great reward,
And find everlasting peace,
Together with the Lord.

by Stephen Bays in memory of his father, David.








Tears  

If the eyes had no tears, the soul would have no rainbow.

Native American Proverb


23 memories for your 23rd birthday on 5/15/08  

We remember you......

1. kicking mom during the pregnancy and waking her up in the middle of the night.
2. loving to be held. You hated the stroller, car seat, etc.
3. getting into everything as a toddler. We couldn’t keep up with you.
4. carrying the caterpillar all afternoon, so you could share it with dad when he got home.
5. loving to hug. Each morning when you were younger, you had to be held a bit before you started your day. You continued to give hugs even as you grew older.
6. chasing characters for autographs at Disney World.
7. fishing with a net along the shoreline of the ocean.
8. loving to be with your friends....so many friends.
9. sharing a bag of sour gummy worms.
10. attending every birthday party in the neighborhood.
11. jumping on the trampoline for hours.
12. wrestling with your brother.
13. loving sports; baseball, basketball, track.
14. talking on the phone for hours.
15. fixing your hair so it would be just right.
16. shopping.
17. checking out the “babes”.....so many girl friends.
18. washing your new car and conning us into helping you.
19. making us laugh.
20. going to proms and looking so sharp or as you might say looking pimp.
21. expressing joy when something worked out in your favor or when you were right about something with a “Yeah Yaaa”.
22. singing in the shower.
23. driving up the driveway with your car music playing loudly.


By Robert Browning  

I walked a mile with Pleasure.
She chattered all the way,
But left me none the wiser
For all she had to say.
I walked a mile with Sorrow,
And ne’er a word said she;
But oh, the things
I learned from her
When Sorrow walked with me!

—Robert Browning


I Carry Your Heart  

I carry your heart with me
(I carry it in my heart)

I am never without it
(Anywhere I go you go, my dear;
and whatever is done by only me
is your doing, my darling)

I fear no fate
(For you are my fate, my sweet)
I want no world
(for beautiful you are my world, my true)
and it's you are whatever a moon has always meant
and whatever a sun will always sing is you

Here is the deepest secret nobody knows
(here is the root of the root
and the bud of the bud
and the sky of the sky
of a tree called life;
which grows higher than the soul can hope or mind can hide)
and this is the wonder that's keeping the stars apart

I carry your heart
(I carry it in my heart)


E. E. Cummings
1958

Only a child knows the beat of their mother's heart from the inside.


Our Children  


I like to think
They are encircling us.
Sunlight in their hair.
Starlight in their eyes.
Holding hands in love
The older ones
Nurturing the younger
Helping them grow.
I like to think they are one
as we are one
a family of love.

by Gloria Grant
TCF/Miami, Fl

When I read this poem, I think of the way Clint assisted younger children at camp.


Shakespeare  

 

Grief fills the room up of my absent child
Lies in his bed, walks up and down with me,
Puts on his pretty looks, repeats his words,
Remembers me of all his gracious parts
Stuffs out his vacant garments with his forms:
Then have I reason to be fond of grief.

--Shakespeare, King John



Give sorrow words; the grief that does not speak
Whispers the o’er-fraught heart, and bids it break.

--Shakespeare, Macbeth
Jack Standeven


When a Child Dies...  
To die one's self is a thing that must be easy,
and light of consequence;

But to lose a part of one's self--
well we know how deep that pang goes,

we who have suffered that disaster,
received that wound which cannot heal....

It is one of the mysteries of our nature that a man,
all unprepared can receive a thunder-stroke like that and live.

It will take mind and memory months
and possibly years
to gather together the details
and thus learn and know the whole extent of the loss.


-Mark Twain, 1888, on the death of his daughter, Suzy Clemens
Prayer of Faith  
We trust that beyond absence
there is a presence.

That beyond the pain
there can be healing.

That beyond the brokenness
there can be wholeness.

That beyond anger
there may be peace.

That beyond the hurting
there may be forgiveness.

That beyond the silence
there may be the word.

That beyond the word
there may be understanding.

That through understanding
there is love.

-Author Unknown

Love-Gratitude  
The agony is so great......
And yet I will stand it.
Had I not loved so very much
I would not hurt so much,
But goodness knows I would not
Want to diminish that precious love
By one fraction of an ounce.
I will hurt,
And I will be grateful to the hurt
For it bares witness to
The depth of our meanings,
And for that I will be
Eternally grateful.





"Louie" by Shirley Holzer Jeffrey
Death The Final Stage of Growth
by Elisabeth Kubler-Ross, MD
The Price of Love is Grief . . .  
A Name For My Pain
by June Williams-Muecke



I have given a name to my pain --
It's called "Longing."

I long for what was,
And what might have been.

I long for his touch and smell of sweat.
I long to hold him one more time.

I long to look on his beautiful face
And impress it upon my memories and heart.

I long to return to the day before
And protect him from his death.

I long to take his place,
So he may live and have sons, too.

I long for time to pass much faster.
So my longing and pain will lessen.







Blue Against Blue  

By Marjolein Bastin


This heavenly blue butterfly
will fly high in the sky,
higher and higher.
The sunlight will touch
the blue on its wings
until it seems to disappear.

We think it is gone,
because the blue of the butterfly
is the exact same blue of the sky.

We think it is gone,
because our eyes are too weak to see-
and it is difficult
to believe what we cannot see.

But the blue butterfly is not gone.
It is still flying,
higher and higher,
nearer the sun.
Blue against blue.
For now and forever.

Janurary 2008  
"Dusk, I realized then, is just an illusion, because the sun in neither above the horizon or below it.  And that means that day and night are linked in a way that few things are; there cannot be one without the other, yet they cannot exist at the same time. How would it feel, I remember wondering to be always together, yet forever apart?"

Author unknown
I'M THERE INSIDE YOUR HEART  
Right now I'm in a different place,
And though we seem apart,
I'm closer than I ever was ...
I'm there inside your heart.

I'm with you when you greet each day
 And while the sun shines bright,
I'm there to share the sunsets, too ...
I'm with you every night.

I'm with you when the times are good,
To share a laugh or two,
And if a tear should start to fall ...
I'll still be there for you.

And when that day arrives
That we no longer are apart,
I'll smile and hold you close to me ...
Forever in my heart.

Author Unknown
Praise Him for the roses; thank Him for the thorns.  
“My God, I have never thanked You for my thorns.
I have thanked You a thousand times for my roses,
but never once for my thorns.
Teach me the glory of the cross I bear;
teach me the value of my thorns.
Show me that I have climbed closer to You along the path of pain.
Show me that, through my tears,
the colors of Your rainbow look much more brilliant."


God Bless all of you. Be thankful for all that the Lord does for you.

"Live simply, love generously, care deeply, speak kindly, and leave
the rest to God."



Author Unknown
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